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Random Thoughts of a Sleepless Thinker

You know what infuriates me? The fact that we started 2011 and the flying car still does not exist. The concept doesn’t seem too difficult, it’s just that we humans are far too stubborn and corrupt.

Someone once told me that the cure for deadly cancers and HIV already exist, but the people in charge feel we’re not ready for it yet. Who gets to say that we need to be ready to save lives? If that isn’t corruption, then I don’t know what corruption is defined as. For all we know the flying car exist, aliens live in our attics, and men can travel through time via Delorean, but someone feels we’re not ready for it. I’m tired of the human mentality. If ants can survive perfectly fine by working as a unit, then why can’t we? It’s because we are stubborn.

Anyway, I find myself laying down on an air mattress in my living room thinking of the past year and I can’t help but notice how much I’ve changed. It took so many bad memories to help me in realizing that it’s about enjoying the small pleasantries. It’s the one laugh you find hidden amongst the ocean of tears that makes a difference. This belief is what has started my new year on a good note. I have high expectations… something I haven’t had in a long time :).

As Jason Mraz said, “Nothings gonna stop me but divine intervention”. As Peter Parker learned, “With great power comes great responsibility.” I have a great power that only I can be responsible in controlling, an unstoppable force of greatness. The only thing that could stop me from reaching the heavens is the same reason Icarus could not touch the Sun, only something as powerful can hold me back.

Curiosity may have killed the cat, but he still has 8 more to tries to make get it right. That’s exactly what I’m doing. Trying my best so i can reach great heights. When I reach the top, I’ll remember the people who pushed me in the right direction.

For all of you having a rough start this year, please know that I may not be praying for you, but I’m thinking of you everyday hoping for the best. The beautiful at heart face the hardest challenges because a higher power out there knows you can overcome them. It’s these obstacles that make us stronger. Good luck. I truly hope this year is a gift, not a curse.

Goodnight and again, Thank you :)

01.02.11 0
SciFi, Gender Perceptions, and Buck Rogers…

A rocket ship lands on a distant alien planet. For convenience
sake, let’s say it’s a fifties-style rocket – kind of
a Buck Rogers rocket with racing stripes and fins. The
rocket lands and the captain sends out a landing party.
Among the members of the party are a father – a middle
aged rocket engineer named Frank—and Frank’s strapping
twenty-year-old son, Bob.
The landing party is not far from the ship when they
are attacked by an alien monster that looks suspiciously
like a Tyrannosaurus Rex. Frank is killed. In fact, everyone
in the landing party is killed except for Frank’s son,
Bob, who hides in a convenient cave. The monster then
turns on the ship, ready to attack.
For the sake of the rest of the crew, the captain must
order the ship to take off, abandoning Bob. The bridge
crew looks at the captain and the captain says, “I can’t
leave Bob behind. He’s my son.”
Who is the captain?

Pat Murphy, a renowned female Science Fiction writer, once said this in a speech at WisCon. There’s more to this speech aside from this story and it gives a very large outlook on our perception.

It’s scary how much this makes you think about gender roles and assumptions in our modern society. We don’t expect the captain to be female because we see what we expect to see, and distort other evidence to fit our expectations. Its one of the major problems of today and it needs to be fix. It’s not the job of solely women to aid in altering these perceptions, it the whole of our people. Change lies in everyone’s hands.

P.S. Everyone should check out Pat Murphy’s speech titled “Illusion And Expectation” from WisCon 15 March 2 1991. It’s one of the most alluring things I’ve read recently and it forces you to think about how you perceive gender in this society. So check it out.

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